Dealing with obnoxious guests?

you should tell her how you feel . one of my sisters came to my house every sunday around 4pm. when i made my children their tea about 5.30 she would not let me give her children anything to eat. she said their dad would be in from work at 8pm and she would be making them their meal then. as i didn't have a dining room my children ate in the sitting room in front of their cousins. after a few weeks i was getting fed up with her visits and the next time she called i said this is a bad time to call and she asked if i wanted her to go and i said yes. so she went home. she still visited but at a more reasonable time.