Everyone sees me as a tom boy even when i try not to be one?! I will give the best answer a credit of 5 star/:?

About a year ago yes i was a tom-boy like wearing the baggy sweat pants or basketball shorts, boys sneakers, getting dirty... but im starting to grow out of it.. I started wearing my hair straight or scrunched,talking about boys and celeb crushes, wearing girly outfits, hanging out with all girls, speaking in "girl language", wearing make up , girly shoes and flirting but its all not working.People say i look like a man when i really don't see it and this girl was like i dare u to be a girl girl for 1 day i bet u cant handle it and i don't like these gestures even though im trying to be a girly girl. the only boyish things i still do is 1 wear baggy sweatpants 2hang out with some boys 3slouch 4when i talk it sounds like im not breathing or if im congested if that makes any sense and 5 im like tall and built for my age so its i guess i should say different?... Please give me tips on what to say ,wear,makeup,nails,hair,flirt, and maybe even act? thank you i appreciate all you people do for me :]