New baby, 1 month old... wht 2 do..?

i had my son christmas day.. he is happy healthy but i am exausted, im lucky 2 get 4/5 hrs sleep a night.. i cant sleep in the day as i have house work 2 do an whn i try my son will just wake up so..anyways my bf works in the day but whn hes at home he wont take him for more thn 5 mins, as soon as our son starts 2 cry he asks me 2 take him back.. if he crys wile im cooking my bf will ask me 2 grab him.. he has only fed him 1 bottle, an hasnt changed a nappy yet.. i have asked him 2 do it for bonding but he jsut makes excuses or whtever.. they arnt bonding an my bf wond have bonding time... it hurts me 2 see thm not bonding... i need help guys wht do u guys thing??